you?
When a girl meets a boy and he
happens to be the man of her dreams,
of course she wishes him to like her as
well. We’ve already discussed a
topic about “How to make the first
date – the last one” where we gave
you some ‘anti-tips’ what not to do…In
today’s article, lets talk about simple
things that will be helpful when you
want a guy of your dreams to like you.
We won’t be giving any manipulation
tips about how to trick a person into
loving you. We just will share some
useful advises to keep in mind, when
you really desire to explore this
‘special’ someone further and see, if
the true love story can be born out of
this relationship.
1) Be yourself.
The paradox of the whole thing is that
there are no such tips and tricks that
will make somebody to love you. Of
course, manipulation techniques exist
and they can have their effect, but this
won’t last, nor bring any happiness at
all, and thus, manipulation can’t have
the true love as a result. This is why
my first tip is – be yourself. If you
want a relationship to last, you want
him to love you for who you truly are,
right? Then, don’t pretend, just be the
real you, this way you will be unique
and different, because there is only
one you on the whole planet!
2) Beauty inside and out.
Everybody knows that first impression
is important. Also, there is a saying
that “men love with their eyes”, which
is partially true, especially in the
beginning. But guy doesn’t fall in love
just with your physical body, he is
attracted by the overall image of you
and your beauty, both outside and
inside.
As for your appearance, beauty,
doesn’t necessarily mean to apply
tons of makeup and create fancy hair
styles in the salon. The secret is to
emphasise your natural features with
the help of some beauty tips and
makeup, but don’t try too hard, just
take good care of yourself and lead
healthy lifestyle.
Keep in mind, that looks aren’t
everything, the special person will also
look at your inside, and fall in love
with the inner you, as well. Therefore,
cultivate your inner beauty, good
qualities of heart and sincerity, those
things are truly attractive.
3) Smile and be positive.
When you vibrate a positive energy,
people are naturally attracted to you.
One of the very important tips is –
smile! When you give your smile to
someone, usually you get it back.
When you try to impress your special
person, put on a smile and a positive
mood, like this your communication
will be easier and smoother and you
will look more attractive. The most
beautiful girl is the happy one! Avoid
gossiping, complaining, avoid
negativity and discussing other
people’s business, nobody likes it.
Guys like girls with cheerful and
‘sunny’ dispositions.
4) Keep some mystery about you.
It’s unnecessary to tell the guy all
about your past life and relationships
straight away in the beginning of
relationship, don’t make him tired or
bored by your excessive talkativeness.
If you really liked this person and he is
meant to be for you, then you will
definitely be together and you will have
the time of the whole life to talk about
everything. Mystery usually is
attractive and he will want to know
more, but there is a thin border
between the mystery and secrecy, so
try to feel it.
5) Don’t show him all your feelings.
If you are already crazy in love with
this person, you don’t need to express
it all to him, nor let him know how
much he is important to you, because
he can be confused and sometime
even scared
This doesn’t mean that you must put
on indifference, my point is : give the
relationship a time to develop and wait
till you grow closer to each other, then
you will be able to talk about
everything and openly share your love,
but in the very beginning the excessive
love expression can repel a person
(weather a guy or a girl).
6) Girl who listens is very charming.
And i’m not only talking about good
manners, cultivate the quality of good
and sincere listener, this will help a lot
in the communication with other
people and also with your special
person. Don’t be too talkative, take
time to find out what is on his mind,
be interested in things that interest
him and especially don’t impose your
opinions, remember the saying: “The
amount of opinions on the planet is
equal to the amount of the people
living!”, so respect and consider what
other person has to say.
7) Avoid quarrels, use humour.
Good sense of humour is always up on
the market. People like it, no matter a
guy or a girl. If you naturally have
good sense of humour, use it, don’t
suppress. Joke, laugh, tell anecdotes,
this will make communication easy.
8) FInd common interests.
Ask the guy what he likes, may be he
is a sport junky and you also spend
hours in a gym, or he loves to travel
and this is also your passion. If you
can find a common ground with your
special someone, there is a big chance
that this will make you closer and your
relationship will last.
9) “Fall in love” with yourself.
See…can anyone fall in love with you if
you feel unattractive, have no
confidence and your full time job is to
be a self critic inside your head? The
answer is no. So, one of the most
important things to have someone to
love you is to fall in love with yourself
and accept yourself completely no
matter what. And I’m not talking about
narcissism or arrogance, the point is
to have healthy self love and self
respect. Learn to see love inside you
and the whole world will fall in love
with you.
10) Let things flow.
And to finish up, just be patient and
let things flow naturally, don’t force
anything, nor try too hard.
Here is one of my favourite quotes and
it’s very relevant in the area of
relationships: “If you love someone, let
them go. If they come back to you,
they are yours forever. If they don’t,
then it was never meant to be.”
Manipulative or forceful relationships
never last. If the guy was meant to be
for you – you will be together and
amazingly happy!
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